My darling, you are very special to me.

Once in a while you meet somebody with whom you are suddenly very close against all 'odds'.
I don't mean in love.
I mean close as sharing things you only share with yourself maybe.
Karma or Law of synchronicity or 'There are no accidents'. Whatever.



I had one of those days today.
Things arrange themselves like doors opening , it is up to us to go through.
Sono Grata.

My darling, you are very special to me.

The day I did everything against my plans.

Today nothing went as planned. But it was a very special day.
Last night stayed up late against my plans .
Got up late against my plans.
Got ready to go somewhere I had planned a month ago and when I was finally ready, it was late.Very Against my plans.
I cancelled my plans, very against my plans.
A very close friend SMS-ed me - very  unscheduled.
I met with her and spent all day  , it turned out she actually needed support and somebody to bounce ideas with.
We spent all day together - against my plans.

I am not against plans and overall, I'd like to call myself a planner.

We plan to bring certain certainty in our lives. We plan to get where we want to go. However, things are arranging themselves all the time - outside our control. We are also changing ourselves. Adaptation is key.

“It was amazing how you could get so far from where you'd planned, and yet find it was exactly were you needed to be.”
― Sarah Dessen
 “In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable.”
― Dwight D. Eisenhower